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Blue Valentine (2010) / Derek Cianfrance

Blue Valentine (2010) / Derek Cianfrance

開首不久,男主角Dean便道出了愛情的現實:”I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.”

感覺似是《浮生路》(Revolutionary Road) 的姐妹作,雖然沒有如RR般災難性的結局,不過也逃不過夫妻感情轉淡、最終分手收場的命運。是不是愛情故事的發展永遠像條拋物線,高峰過後總會走下 坡?即使當初如何甜蜜,浪漫卻非時間所能維持。一見鐘情並不等於可以一生一世。”You always hurt the one you love.” 越愛對方,把對方逼得越緊。

“You and me, nobody baby but you and me.” 曾經,宇宙只有你和我。但熱情過後,當初的訂情曲最終只會淪落為愛的輓歌。

(20110223 @ BC)

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2 comments

  1. absolutely!!! this reminded me “Revolutionary Road”!!!
    婚姻彷似是一個獨立個體的墳墓,有些理論說愛情就是自我消滅的開始。

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